Your most powerful influence will be the example you set for your family. If you are evil you will lose your family. Your heart is a gift of God. If you use Your heart for what God wants to love others and pray for them. Let this example leave a legacy of faith, wisdom, strength, hope and they say Your prayers will go beyond the grave for your family.

I thank God, whom I serve, as my ancestors did, with a clear conscience, as night and day I constantly remember you in my prayers. Recalling your tears, I long to see you, so that I may be filled with joy. I am reminded of your sincere faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and in your mother Eunice and, I am persuaded, now lives in you also.
2 timothy 1:3-5