Marriage is about compromise. Being a winner isn’t important, working together is.
You know that in a race all the runners run but only one wins the prize, don’t you? You must run in such a way that you may be victorious. Everyone who enters an athletic contest practices self-control in everything. They do it to win a wreath that withers away, but we run to win a prize that never fades.
1 Corinthians 9:24-25